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28 December 2013

Top 10 Items Taken From Hotel Rooms

Top 10 items taken from hotels

When travelling, we sometimes do not pack our own towels as the hotels will provide us with clean, freshly laundered towels. Little wonder that many guests find them so comfy that they take them along.
When travelling, we sometimes do not pack our own towels as the hotels will provide us with clean, freshly laundered towels. Little wonder that many guests find them so comfy that they take them along.
We all love the comforts that a hotel stay offers, such as room service and housekeeping. However, some want to take the experience back with them by keeping a few “souvenirs” from their stay. StarMetro lists some of the common items taken from hotels by guests.
Magazines and books
Usually, a TV guide is placed in the room for the convenience of guests and not for them to take home. However, pencils, notepads and envelopes are complimentary.
Hairdryer
Some hotels have a hairdryer attached on the wall of the bathroom while others are available to guests upon request. However, many hairdriers have fallen victim to “accidental” packing by guests. Maybe the hotel hairdryer is more to their liking than their own.
Towels
When travelling, we sometimes do not pack our own towels as the hotels will provide us with clean, freshly laundered towels. Little wonder that many guests find them so comfy that they take them along.
Bathrobes
Many fall in love with the warmth and comfort bathrobes provide, and want to replicate the experience back home.
Basic amenities
Soap, shampoo, toothbrush, toothpaste and sometimes a sewing kit are placed in hotel bathrooms for our use. So, technically it’s not wrong to take them home. However, if you didn’t use them, why take them home?
Slippers
Slippers are sometimes wrapped in plastic, so once you open them, it’s okay to take them home. But why not be green, by not taking another pair home which you would probably not use again?
TV remote control
Some people take TV remote controls home just for kicks. Some actually think they can use it for their TV at home, but soon discover otherwise.
Tissue box
Tissue boxes and sometimes even toilet paper are taken away, with many guests rationalising that they have paid for it!
Hangers
Hangers are a popular item, which is probably the reason why most are attached to the rails in cupboards. Most guests claim that they forgot to take them out when packing their clothes.
Coffee sachets, cups,
saucer and kettle
Coffee and tea is complimentary, but certainly not the cups, saucers and kettle.

24 December 2013

BITSTRIPS CRAZE ON FACEBOOK, CARTOON FIGURES BETTER LOOKING THAN REAL LIFE PICTURES!

FB gimmick draws likes and dislikes

A Bitstrips comic strip created by Desonny
A Bitstrips comic strip created by Desonny
It’s the latest craze in Facebook where you can now characterise yourself as comic characters in more ways than one.
IF you’re on Facebook, you would have noticed that some of your friends have turned into cartoon characters. If you’re not on the world’s largest social network, allow me to narrate how I discovered the latest Facebook phenomenon.
Two weeks ago, I went through my Facebook news feed and spotted a comic strip starring someone resembling a friend. Sonny (he looked 50% more handsome as a cartoon) was using a ratchet brace to massage his wife’s head.
In a dialogue bubble, his cartoon character said, “Nah … sure ok ur migraine … Shiok Kah?” and she replied, “Eh .. Palan Palan Bah…. Ma u pacah kapala sia sudah …. (spoken in Sabah slang which translated meant, ‘Please do it slowly. If not you, would break my head.’)”.
“Now I know what you do at home,” I thought. “Great artwork. Must be one of those apps that can turn a photograph into cartoon.”
I kept on seeing more and more comic strips starring my friends on Facebook. Nevertheless, I was too bodoh sombong (dumb and proud) to ask what the app was called.
However, during a six-hour drive from Sungai Limau in Kedah to Subang Jaya with a colleague half my age, curiosity got the better of me.
“What’s this cartoon thing I’m seeing on Facebook,” I asked Michelle Tam, who is in her 20s.
“Bitstrips,” she said. Bitstrips, according to its website, is “instant comics starring you and your friends”. It allows users to create cartoons (more than 1,000 different cartoon templates to choose from) that look like them. And you can pick different comic scenes and add your punch line in the dialogue bubble.
It was launched in December last year and it became a Facebook craze last month.
To quote @hkityen (Ho Kit Yen who is my Twitter friend), “Hoi! What’s with the Bitstrips hype?! That cartoon comic app has been around for some time, now only people discovered it?!”
According to Bitstrips.com, so far it has 20 million unique users, 100 million Bitstrips were shared and five billion Bitstrips viewed.
“Bitstrips is hard to categorise because it’s not a game,” its CEO Jacob Blackstock told the Baltimore Sun in April.
“It’s a new way to express yourself and interact with your friends. Instead of posting the same things as everyone else, you can create something that relates to your life.”
Sonny fell in love with Bitstrips a week ago. “It is unique,” said the 39-year-old Sabahan in a WhatsApp interview . “We need to get away somewhere and Bitstrips is the ‘world’ where I can express myself.”
Sonny’s Bitstrips world is not an alternative universe but an extension of his real life.
For example, after he massaged the head of his wife who had migraine, he created a “ratchet brace” comic strip to exaggerate what had just happened.
He confessed that Bitstrips also add another dimension in his relationship with his 33-year-old wife.
“We make fun of each other (using Bitstrips comic strips) in a humorous way. And our kids enjoy them, too,” he said.
On Tuesday, Jacqueline L. Lohindun saw Bitstrips on Facebook and she was curious of what she thought was a game app.
“I had the feeling ‘I wanna try this too’ since most of the postings came from my friends,” said a 30-year-old Kadazandusun from Papar, Sabah, in a WhatsApp interview.
“The cartoon was more Hollywood unlike anime where you have to make it beautiful (which is very tiring). I was totally impressed by it.
“I love the avatar. And I can make comic status of myself and friends anywhere and anytime,” added Jacqueline, “even at this moment I am making another Bitstrips”.
Bitstrips has also invaded my Twitter timeline. I typed “bitstrips” to search tweets from people I follow and here are the four tweets.
@fazlitaufek (Fazli Taufek): “Bitstrips, Bitstrips everywhere!”
@hafizinfinite (Hafiz Marzukhi): “Discovering the wonders of Bitstrips!”
@vin_ann (Chin Ann): “Everyone is crazy for bitstrips !!”
@ladymissazira (Azira): “Have a lovely weekend, and Happy Deepavali to all! #bitstrips” and she included a Bitstrips comic of her avatar flinging papers into the air.
“I sometimes wonder if people use Bitstrips because their real pictures are so bad ...” tweeted @klubbkiddkl (klubbkidd).
He ain’t a fan of the app. Earlier @klubbkiddkl tweeted three steps to blocking Bitstrips on your Facebook.
There are a sizeable number of people who hate the app. Here are three examples from my Twitter timeline.
@prasys (Pradeesh): “Finally found a way to block all those annoying bitstrips in my facebook. Nobody cares about your cartoonish crap.”
@hanishahab (Hani O’Shahab): “thankful that my facebook timeline this morning is devoid of wanna-be-funny-but-not-funny bitstrips.”
@Leezykrauff (Lola): “Bitstrips where everybody can pretend to be Stan Lee. most of it, not funny at all.”
I’ve a feeling that Bitstrips will be like Draw Something. Remember Draw Something?
It was THE addictive social drawing game you played in your smartphone.
Zynga bought it for US$180mil (RM567mil) and it had to shut it down recently as its popularity plunged.
So far the Bitstrips bug has not bitten me. If it did, I would probably start a political comic strip with dialogue bubbles with real quotes from politicians.

THE STAR

23 December 2013

Signs Of A Cheating Spouse!




SIGNS OF INFEDILITY
Signs of a cheating spouse, according to divorce lawyer Datuk Mohd Zaidi Zain: Sex and intimacy is an important part of a relationship. A noticeable change or loss of interest in this area points to a problem in your relationship. (Photo:TNP)


Your partner's friends and co-worker may know about a secret relationship, and thus act strangely in your presence because they are uncomfortable looking you in the eye and lying to you. (Photo:BT)


If your partner has requested that you no longer visit or call him/her at work, there may be a reason other than the boss is strict. (Photo:ST)


A good deal of cheating takes place right at home over the internet. Signs to look out for are locked screens, your spouse quickly switching screens when you enter a room. (Photo:ST)


Just like the computer, a mobile phone can be one of the tools your spouse uses to engage in undisclosed activities. Watch out for secret phone calls and excessive texting. (Photo:ST)
Typically a cheater will be overly loving and sweet to you in the beginning but that quickly turns to finding fault with you as your spouse tries to mentally justify his her actions. (Photo:SPH)


Has there been a sudden increase in long hours at work? Does he/she seem to be spending an unusual amount of time with their friends recently? (Photo:SPH)


If your spouse has seemingly lost interest in activities like spending time with the children and maintaining the home, they may be bored with family life and seeking simple pleasures elsewhere. (Photo:SPH)


While there are many reasons to want to look and feel better, often a new lover can be the impetus behind a new hairstyle or sharper attire. (Photo:SPH)


Does your partner avoid eye contact, or rush upstairs to take a shower upon returning home? These could mean your spouse is engaging in extracurricular activites. (Photo:Internet)


Sometimes we overlook the obvious. Has your spouse stopped wearing the wedding ring recently? Have you given your partner any other jewellery that they are suddenly no longer wearing? (Photo:SPH)


Clues you can look for are receipts, moved passenger seat, changes of clothing in the trunk, unexplained mileage, removal of car seat and other personal effects that may indicate a person is in a relationship. (Photo:SPH)


A private investigator shares these top signs of a cheating partner: 1. A sudden need for privacy and space. (Posed picture: TNP)


2. Secretive phone calls - their phone is usually on silent and practically strapped to their bodies. (Posed picture: TNP)



3. Constantly dropping their new "friend's" name in conversation (Posed picture: TNP)


4. Change in regular work habits (Posed picture: TNP)


5. Behaviour that doesn't add up, such as not being where he/she is expected to be




Seeing Is Believing, I Chanced Upon My Hubby & His Other Family

Thu, Dec 19, 2013
Simply Her


"I chanced upon my hubby and his other family while on holiday"
by Azlinda Said





It started out like any other holiday. My husband Fred* and I had been to this hotel many times before. In fact, it had become a ritual for us to visit every year, staying about five days each time - Fred had found the place and I liked the delicious food and wonderful spa treatments they offered. Some years, we went alone, and other years, our two young children would come along.

Fred had many friends and business associates there, and he would occasionally leave me to my own devices while he went to meet them, coming back in time for dinner.

The other woman
On this holiday, Fred, as usual, told me he was going to meet his buddies. Innocently, I asked to tag along - in all the 10 years we had been holidaying there, I'd never met his friends. Fred refused, saying I'd be bored with their mundane chatter. He asked me to enjoy the hotel facilities and wait for his return later that evening. I reluctantly agreed.

However, two hours later, I decided to go shopping in town. I spent a fair bit of time walking around, working up an appetite. Feeling famished, I headed to a nearby cafe for some snacks and a cup of tea.
As I crossed the road to the cafe, I saw Fred sitting at one of the tables, feeding three young children. They must be his friends' kids, I thought. Eager for my husband's company, I hurried over to him, only to stop short when I noticed a petite woman carrying a tray of food making her way towards Fred.

Seeing is believing
I watched as she sat next to Fred and leaned in for a kiss. My eyes widened in disbelief as my husband kissed her back on the lips. My heart sank as I watched them gaze lovingly into each other's eyes.


Seeing is believing


Not knowing what to do after catching my husband sharing an intimate moment with another woman, I quickly looked for a place to hide.

I stepped behind a big tree, trying not to hyperventilate as I tried to work out what I had just seen.
Was the woman one of Fred's many friends, I wondered? But no matter how much I tried to rationalise what I'd seen, it came back to one thing - judging from the intimate way Fred and the woman were behaving, they must be lovers.

I should know - I'd been married to Fred for 12 years and that look he gave the woman was the same one he used to give me in our 'honeymoon' years.

My eyes started to burn - I didn't realise I had been crying. At a loss as to what to do, I contemplated packing my bags and flying home.

Then I felt indignant. Why should I beat a hasty retreat? It was bad enough that I was cowering behind a tree as if I was the one with something to hide.

After about half an hour, I decided I needed to find out what was going on.

Taking a deep breath, I marched across the road into the cafe and over to Fred's table. He turned pale when he saw me.

I'd wanted to stay calm but my anger got the better of me - I slapped him and demanded to know who the woman was.

Rubbing his cheek, Fred pulled me aside and asked me to return to the hotel.

He said it was all a big misunderstanding and that he would explain everything later.

I became hysterical and demanded that he tell me everything there and then, or I would kick up an even bigger fuss for all to see.

Seeing that his efforts to placate me had failed, Fred brought me back to the table. The woman had remained seated the whole time, hugging the children close to her while watching my little drama with Fred unfold.


Meet Jane*, Fred said, and her kids.
His double life


His double life
Jane gave me a meek smile but I just stared at her.

Fred explained that he had met Jane four years ago during a work trip there. Jane was the waitress at the restaurant that he and his business associates were having dinner at.

They'd connected emotionally and Fred had decided to pursue the friendship.

When he found out that Jane and her children had been abandoned by her ex-husband, Fred took pity on her and helped her out ï¬nancially - he tried to make as many business trips to the place as he could, so that he could look in on her more often.

'So you repay my husband's kindness by having an affair with him?' I asked Jane. She kept quiet and looked to Fred for help. She seemed genuinely distressed. I watched in dismay as Fred reached for her hand and squeezed it.

Then he turned to me and dropped a bombshell: 'We're not having an affair, Kim. We got married two years ago.'

I was stunned. My husband had married another woman?

He had been juggling two families for the past two years and leading a double life?

My children and I had been sharing a father and husband all this while? Was their marriage even recognised? How was he supportingdual families - did he skimp on us so he could splurge on them?
No wonder he loved going back time and again to the same hotel for a holiday - it was so convenient for him to sneak out and spend time with his other family!

I was in shock and seething with rage, but I was also disappointed and heartbroken.

I ran out of the cafe and caught a cab back to the hotel. Fred didn't chase after me - I wasn't sure if I felt relieved or upset at that.

Learning to deal
Fred didn't return to the hotel until late that night. By then, my eyes were swollen from crying and I'd packed my bags. I told him I was going home the next morning.


Fred tried to persuade me to stay, saying we needed to work things out.
Learning to deal




I refused and told him that if he still loved me, he would leave with me. He took a moment to consider, then told me to go ahead.

'I need to tie up some loose ends. I will be home in two days,' he said.

So I went home alone, rejected by the man I'd thought was my soulmate - we had been together since college and hardly ever argued throughout our relationship - and mulling over myriad questions.

Was my marriage a sham? Was it worth saving? How would I tell the kids that their father has another family overseas? By the time Fred returned home two days later, I still didn't have the answers.
For a month after that, Fred and I crept around each other, not saying much and keeping up a semblance of a marriage before we attempted to communicate again.

Fred reached out first, saying we needed to discuss things. He took me to dinner at our favourite restaurant and was an absolute gentleman that night, reminding me of how he used to be when we'd first started dating.

He apologised for upsetting me and told me that he hadn't planned on falling in love with Jane. 'It just happened,' he said earnestly.

He said he was waiting for the right time to tell me. Sobbing, he asked for my forgiveness.
He'd missed me terribly and wanted to make things better between us. 'Can't we just go back to the way we were?' he begged. He promised that he would fairly divide his time between Jane and me.
At that moment, it all became clear to me - I knew what I needed to do. We'd never go back to the way we were if Fred wasn't willing to let go of his other wife. I certainly wasn't going to share, so I asked Fred for a divorce.

He was taken aback. 'We've been married for so long. You can't just give up on us now. Think of our children,' he implored.

But I remained firm. I told him he had made a mockery of our marriage and I couldn't accept another woman in his life.


I couldn't understand how my husband could give his heart to someone else and sneak around while doing so.

Greener pastures
Greener pastures
That was two years ago. It took me about a year to finally move on with my life.
I have a steady job now and have moved back in with my parents, who have been so supportive, even helping me care for my kids while I'm at work.

It was difficult at first, having to survive on a single income - I realised how 'pampered' we had been when Fred was around and bringing home a big salary - but we have managed to adjust to our new, humble lifestyle.

I never bothered to find out what the legal status of Fred's second marriage was.

But I explained to my children what their father did and why we divorced - I don't want to hide anything from them. I don't know if they fully grasped the situation - all they did was to cry and hug me, and ask for Daddy to make them breakfast the day after - but I hope they will understand when they get older.

They still see their father once in a while, but they are no longer as close to him as before.
I have started dating again. I'm not yet ready to walk down the aisle once more, but I'm willing to take a second chance with another man.


I hope that I'll be able to find someone better than Fred, someone who will not only embrace my young ones as his own, but also love me - and only me."

DIVAASIA




08 December 2013

Masturbation Is Good For Your Health, Prevents Cystitis, Diabetes and Cancer

'Masturbation Is Good For Your Health': Experts Say It Can Prevent Cystitis, Diabetes And Cancer

It can also help stave off depression, insomnia and boost the immune system, the researchers claim    /DailyMailIt can also help stave off depression, insomnia and boost the immune system, the researchers claim /DailyMailIt is a subject that has provoked a host of myths, from causing blindness and insanity to the loss of vital organs.
Now two academics are on a mission to set the record straight about masturbation - and highlight all the health benefits it can bring.
Anthony Santella, a public health scientist at the University of Sydney and his colleague Spring Chenoa Cooper, a senior lecturer, say self-pleasuring can ward off a host of illnesses, from cystitis, diabetes to prostate cancer.
They say that 94 per cent of men admit to masturbating, as do 85 per cent of women - and that it's something even  babies do from the time they are in the womb.
Writing for The Conversation, a website where academics write opinion pieces, they say: 'For women, masturbation can help prevent cervical infections and urinary tract infections through the process of "tenting," or the opening of the cervix that occurs as part of the arousal process.
'Tenting stretches the cervix, and thus the cervical mucous. This enables fluid circulation, allowing cervical fluids full of bacteria to be flushed out.
Two academics have highlighted the health benefits of masturbation - and say it can help conditions such as cystitis    /DailyMailTwo academics have highlighted the health benefits of masturbation - and say it can help conditions such as cystitis /DailyMail'They add that engaging in self-pleasure can also 'lower the risk of type-2 diabetes (though this association may also be explained by greater overall health), reduce insomnia through hormonal and tension release, and increase pelvic floor strength through the contractions that happen during orgasm.'
Then there is cancer prevention. Studies have shown that men who regularly have sex may have a lower risk of prostate cancer - perhaps due to the release of toxins from the prostate gland - and they say that masturbation achieves this same effect.
The Australian pair also argue that it can help prevent depression, due to the 'happy' endorphins produced and cause a slight hike in levels of the hormone cortisol, which may give the immune system a boost. 
They add that masturbation is also 'the most convenient method for maximising orgasms' - and that people who orgasm regularly have 'reduced stress, reduced blood pressure, increased self-esteem, and reduced pain'.
Last, but not least, they make the point that there's also no risk of disappointing a partner - of the dreaded performance anxiety. And there's no risk of unwanted pregnancies or STIs.
 


 Malaysian Digest

Sex on Internet Corrupting Malaysian Youth

Internet Sex Corrupting Malaysia's Youth






Accessing porn at a press of a buttonAccessing porn at a press of a buttonUNLIKE in America, building a perimeter wall around a house is a prerequisite in Malaysia.
This makes us feel safer because we get to decide who is allowed to come inside our compound and who isn’t.
We are building a protective buffer because we know it’s a dangerous world out there.
Evil forces are always waiting for an opportunity to pounce and put our loved ones at risk.
But evil is cunning. They have found a new way in.
The 'gates' that secure the world’s homes are now unlocked with the sudden explosion in handheld internet devices.
It has started an unhealthy trend among the youths in Malaysia to mimic the Western way of life propagated through a billion or so internet sites which are readily available at a click of a button.


In a short time, eroded and gone are the traditional, conservative and morally upright Eastern etiquette, replaced by the more vulgar and immoral Western values.
A study in Australia reported that in 2003 alone, there are 260 million porn sites in the internet, an explosion of 1,800% (twentyfold increase) in just five years.  
All sorts of pornography is available on the net  /Google ImagesAll sorts of pornography is available on the net /Google ImagesAnd here in Malaysia, police record shows, rape cases in the country continue to rise each year – from 138 cases recorded in 1980 to 3,595 in 2010.
It is estimated that 10 women are raped every day, with many more going unreported. At least half of the victims are said to be children and teenage girls below 16 years old.
The increase in the rape of minors is worrying: from 378 reported cases in 1991, it rose to 859 in July 2012. It was also reported in Parliament that some 6,000 statutory rape cases were reported in the last five years.
Some pornography sites even deliberately target the young by registering website names like Teltubbies.com and Bobthebiulder.com (a deliberate misspelling of the names of children shows Teletubbies and Bob the Builder.)
So it should be perfectly reasonable when our former Prime Minister, Tun Mahathir Mohamad said recently that he thinks the internet today should be censored.
This, of course, contradicts with the undertaking he made when he was PM, when he said the internet should not be censored in any way.
Mahathir’s call for the government to reconsider the "absolute (Internet) freedom" as provided for under the Communication and Multimedia Act 1998, as well as the Bill of Guarantees of the Multimedia Super Corridor is because of the unfortunate development of internet content today.
"When I said there should be no censorship of the Internet, I really did not realise the power of the Internet. (Which is) the power to create problems and agitate people.
"Before (pornographic) magazines and all that could be banned from coming into our country, now it (the Internet) is so porous that we cannot prevent all this filth from coming into our country," Mahathir reportedly said in an interview with local English daily New Sunday Times.
Prime Minister Datuk Seri Najib Tun Razak, however is opposed to censoring the internet, saying that the move would not only be ineffective but would also cause public dissatisfaction.
But as recent as in 2009, Information Communication and Culture Minister Datuk Seri Dr Rais Yatim said the government was looking to put up Internet filter to stop access to undesirable websites.
Everything is on display for everyone especially children  /Google ImagesEverything is on display for everyone especially children /Google ImagesAt the time the government had called for a tender to develop an Internet filtering system similar to China’s controversial Green Dam project to block “undesirable websites.”
Datuk Seri Dr Rais Yatim had said that the filter system was to reduce “Malaysian children’s exposure to online pornography.”
“We will attempt to put in this filtering system because the safety of our children from pornography cannot be compromised,” he told a press conference.
Rais said: "A segment of our society has now become culpable of various ills through the Internet: Internet gambling, child pornography, illicit adverts, false reporting, cheating, privacy intrusions and many more."
On the same note, Malaysian Communication and Multimedia Commission (MCMC) chairman Datuk Mohamed Sharil Tarmizi argued that what constitutes as an offence offline, should also be made illegal online.
"People need to distinguish between censoring (the Internet) and enforcing laws of the land," he said, citing the controversial decision to block 10 file-sharing websites found to have contravened the Copyright Act 1987, as an example.
"If stealing is illegal offline, than downloading of pirated contents is also an offence," he added.
Since 2008, MCMC has blocked 6,640 websites covering pornography, copyright infringement and malicious content.
Criminal analyst Kamal Affandi Hashim, said parents must be more responsible when it comes to providing internet access to their children.
“It’s akin to a knife, it can be used to cut food or injure a person. It is not the knife that is at fault, but the person who is holding the knife.
“Parents take responsibility and filter their children’s access to the internet,” cautioned Kamal.
It’s up to parents to control who they allow to enter their household. They should keep the ‘gates’ of their children’s mind firmly locked from being corrupted by filth.  
Only then can our country be kept safe from the evils of the internet.


Malaysian Digest

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